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How to Pray — A Bible Study

A verse-by-verse KJV Bible study on how to pray — walking through the Lord's Prayer as a pattern for daily conversation with God.

Matthew 6:9-13Gospel

The Big Story

Embedded within the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus' teaching on prayer arrives at the hinge-point of Redemption history — after centuries of Israel's broken covenant prayers and before the cross that would tear the temple veil, this passage reorients God's people to approach their heavenly Father not through ritual distance but through the intimacy and order that the Son himself models.

Author
traditionally attributed to Matthew the ApostleScholarly debate exists over whether the author was the tax-collector Matthew or a later Jewish-Christian compiler drawing on his witness; most traditions retain the traditional name
Date
commonly dated to AD 50–70
Key Figures
Jesus Christ
Key Theme
Jesus gives his disciples a structured pattern — not a rote formula — for approaching God as Father, King, Provider, Forgiver, and Deliverer
Read Time
~30 min

Lord Jesus, as we study the prayer You taught Your disciples, open our hearts to hear Your voice in these timeless words. Jesus, teach us not merely to recite these phrases, but to pray them with the conviction and reverence they deserve. Help us see in the Lord's Prayer a pattern for genuine conversation with our Father—one that reorders our priorities, humbles our desires, and aligns our will with Yours. Grant us the Holy Spirit's wisdom to understand what each petition means and the courage to live it out. May this study transform not just how we pray, but why we pray. Amen.

Literary Context

The Lord's Prayer sits at the heart of the Sermon on the Mount (Matthew 5–7), Jesus' longest recorded block of teaching. Immediately before it, Jesus warns against praying like the hypocrites who love to be seen (6:5) and against the pagan practice of heaping up empty repetitions, thinking they will be heard for their many words (6:7-8). The prayer is offered as the corrective pattern — after this manner therefore pray ye.

Immediately after (6:14-15), Jesus expands on the single petition He circles back to: forgiveness. He tells the crowd that their forgiving others is bound up with being forgiven. This placement fits Matthew's wider argument in the Sermon: true righteousness is a matter of the heart before the Father, not outward performance for human applause (6:1).

Historical Setting

  • Public and repetitive prayer culture. First-century Jewish and pagan worship both featured lengthy public prayers (widely accepted). How this affects how we read the text: Jesus' model is strikingly brief and God-directed, showing that prayer's power lies not in length or spectacle but in relationship.
  • The intimate address 'Father.' While God as Father appears in the Hebrew Scriptures, addressing God so personally and directly in prayer was distinctive (scholars suggest). How this affects how we read the text: The opening word reframes prayer as a family conversation, not a transaction with a distant deity.
  • Debts as a picture of sin. In the surrounding culture, debt language was vivid and familiar to ordinary people (widely accepted). How this affects how we read the text: When Jesus says 'forgive us our debts,' the hearers would feel the weight of something owed and released, making forgiveness tangible.
  • Daily bread and subsistence living. Many of Jesus' hearers lived hand-to-mouth (widely accepted). How this affects how we read the text: 'Give us this day our daily bread' is a real, dependent request from people who genuinely did not know where tomorrow's food would come from.

Why It Matters Today

Modern readers often approach prayer either as performance or as a wish-list. The context shows Jesus rejecting both: prayer begins with God's name, kingdom, and will before it ever reaches our needs. Recovering that order reshapes how we speak to God.

The everyday-ness of 'daily bread' and released 'debts' reminds contemporary readers — even those far from subsistence living — that dependence and forgiveness are meant to be daily, not occasional, postures.

Knowing that Jesus gives this prayer as a deliberate corrective to showy, wordy religion transforms it from a ritual to recite into a model for how God-first, dependent conversation with the Father actually works.

Read the passage below, then use the guide to go deeper.

Matthew 6:9-13 (KJV)

9After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. 10Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven. 11Give us this day our daily bread. 12And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. 13And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever. Amen.

Matthew 6:9-13

Before we dig in, read the passage slowly. Also read it in other translations at Bible Gateway or ESV.org.

Before engaging the questions and commentary below, read through all passages using this three-pass approach. Each pass takes only a few minutes but significantly deepens engagement.

  1. Pass 1 — Read for Overall Flow and Story: Read the whole passage without stopping. What is the overall movement? Does this prayer move from heaven to earth, or from God's concerns to ours? What does the structure tell you about Jesus' priorities?
  2. Pass 2 — Read for Repeated Words and Phrases: Read again, this time with a pen or highlighter. Mark every time you see words that repeat. Notice: Father, thy (or your), kingdom, will, us/our, forgive, temptation/evil. Why does this word keep appearing? What does its repetition signal about what matters in prayer?
  3. Pass 3 — Read for Structure: Read a final time looking for the literary shape of this prayer. Notice the opening address (Our Father), three petitions focused on God's honour, three focused on human need, and a closing doxology. How does this architecture teach us the order of true prayer?

Pay particular attention to these verses as you read:

  • Matthew 6:9 — The opening reveals who we are praying to and where He dwells; everything that follows flows from this identity.
  • Matthew 6:10 — The two central petitions show that God's glory and His will on earth are Jesus' primary concern; our needs follow.
  • Matthew 6:11 — The shift to our and us marks the turn inward; even our daily dependence is part of the prayer's design.
  • Matthew 6:12 — The forgiveness petition is uniquely conditional; it mirrors our own capacity to forgive.
  • Matthew 6:13 — The final petitions and doxology anchor the prayer in God's kingdom, power, and glory—not our escape.

Teasers from the passage:

Hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.
Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever.

What does the text actually say? These observations are drawn directly from the passage — no interpretation yet.

The following observations report only what the text says — no interpretation or theology yet. Each point cites the specific verse(s) observed.

  1. The passage opens as an instruction: 'After this manner therefore pray ye,' identifying what follows as a taught pattern for prayer (Matthew 6:9).
  2. God is addressed as 'Our Father which art in heaven,' using the plural 'Our' rather than a singular 'my' (Matthew 6:9).
  3. The first three petitions all concern God directly — His name, kingdom, and will — before any human need is mentioned (Matthew 6:9-10).
  4. The word 'thy' (thy name, thy kingdom, thy will, thine is the kingdom) recurs, as does the parallel 'us / our' in the later petitions (Matthew 6:9-13).
  5. A contrast between two realms appears: God's will is to be done 'in earth, as it is in heaven' (Matthew 6:10).
  6. The forgiveness petition is stated with a comparison: 'forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors' (Matthew 6:12).
  7. Verse 13 sets opposites side by side — 'lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil' (Matthew 6:13).
  8. The prayer closes with a threefold ascription to God — 'the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, for ever' — followed by 'Amen' (Matthew 6:13).

Structure Snapshot: The prayer moves in a clear order — address (Father in heaven), three God-centred petitions (name, kingdom, will), three human-centred petitions (bread, forgiveness, deliverance), and a closing ascription of praise.

This passage teaches that prayer is not a formula to be recited but a God-centred pattern that reorders our hearts—beginning with the Father's name, kingdom, and will before turning to our own needs, forgiveness, and protection.

Takeaway 1: Prayer Begins With Relationship and Reverence Together

Jesus opens not with our requests but with intimacy and awe held together: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name (v.9). We approach as beloved children, yet the first petition asks that God's name be set apart as holy. Adoption and adoration meet in the very first breath of prayer.

Takeaway 2: God's Agenda Comes Before Ours

Three kingdom-first petitions precede any personal need: Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven (v.10). Prayer aligns our desires to God's reign rather than bending God toward ours. To pray this way is to surrender before we ask.

Takeaway 3: Daily Dependence Is Built Into the Pattern

The request for daily bread (v.11) trains us toward humble, present-tense reliance rather than anxious self-sufficiency. It covers ordinary physical need without shame, teaching us that even bread comes from the Father's hand. Reformed traditions emphasise God's providence in this line, while many evangelical traditions stress simple daily faith; both affirm dependence rather than hoarding.

Takeaway 4: Forgiveness Received Shapes Forgiveness Given

We ask, forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors (v.12). The debt language frames sin as an obligation we cannot repay, and pardon toward others flows from pardon received—not as a wage that earns it, but as evidence of a forgiven heart. Mercy received becomes mercy released.

Takeaway 5: We Pray for Protection and God's Glory

The prayer ends looking outward and upward: lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory (v.13). We admit our vulnerability and rest in God's sovereign strength. Catholic and many Protestant traditions note the doxology's manuscript history varies, but its worship-centred ending fittingly returns all glory to God.

Cross-References

  • Clarifies a key term: Luke 11:2-4 gives a parallel version of this prayer, clarifying its structure and confirming it as a teachable pattern.
  • Echoes the same theme: Psalm 103:13 echoes the fatherly compassion behind “Our Father,” grounding our confidence in God's tender character.
  • Provides caution or balance: Matthew 6:7-8 immediately precedes this, cautioning against vain repetition and reminding us the Father already knows our needs.
True prayer starts by hallowing God's name and seeking His kingdom, so that even our deepest needs are spoken from a heart already surrendered to Him.

Only Jesus makes this prayer possible. When He teaches us to say Our Father which art in heaven (v.9), He invites us into the very relationship He enjoys as the eternal Son—an access purchased at the cross. Every petition finds its fulfilment in Him: He is the one who prayed Thy will be done in Gethsemane and drank the cup; He is the bread of life who satisfies our hunger; He is the one who bore our debts so that forgive us our debts (v.12) could be answered with grace rather than judgment.

The New Testament shows Jesus embodying this prayer perfectly. In John 6:35 He declares, “I am the bread of life,” and in His high-priestly prayer He asks that the Father's name be glorified (John 17). Because He was led into the wilderness and delivered from evil on our behalf, we can pray verse 13 with confidence. The Lord's Prayer is not merely a model handed down by a teacher—it is the family language of those united to Christ.

We only dare to call God “Father” because the Son first called Him ours.

Each application flows from a specific textual insight and answers what God invites us to think, desire, and do.


Application 1: Begin Prayer With Worship, Not a Wish List

From: Matthew 6:9

Think: Because Christ has made you a child of the Father, you already have His full attention before you ask for anything. Prayer does not earn access—it enjoys it. Hallowing God's name reorders your anxious heart around His holiness.

Desire: Long to be a person who delights in God Himself, not merely in His gifts. Ask the Spirit to make His name precious to you.

Do: This week, before making any request in prayer, spend the first sixty seconds naming three things about God's character that you adore.

Application 2: Surrender Your Plans to His Kingdom

From: Matthew 6:10

Think: Praying “Thy will be done” is possible because Jesus already prayed it perfectly and secured your good even through the cross. You surrender to a will that has already proven trustworthy.

Desire: Want God's kingdom to advance more than you want your own comfort or control this week.

Do: Identify one decision you are currently gripping tightly and pray over it, writing down: “Thy will, not mine, in this.”

Application 3: Practice Daily Dependence With Your Finances

From: Matthew 6:11

Think: Asking for “daily bread” frees you from the burden of self-sufficiency; the Father who gave His Son will not withhold what you truly need. Provision is a gift, not a wage.

Desire: Crave contentment with enough rather than anxious accumulation.

Do: This week, thank God specifically before at least one meal a day for that day's provision, and give one unplanned gift to someone in need.

Application 4: Extend the Forgiveness You Have Received

From: Matthew 6:12

Think: Because Christ cancelled your unpayable debt at the cross, you can release the far smaller debts others owe you. Forgiveness given is not the price of pardon but the proof of it.

Desire: Long to be free from the weight of resentment you have been carrying.

Do: This week, identify one relationship where you can practice the forgiveness described in v.12, and take one concrete step—a conversation, a message, or releasing it before God.

Accountability Suggestion

This week, pray through the Lord's Prayer line by line each morning, pausing at each phrase to make it personal. Tell one trusted friend you are doing this and check in with them on Friday about what changed in your heart.

You do not pray to become the Father's child—you pray because in Christ you already are, and He delights to hear you.

Use these questions for personal reflection or group discussion.

  1. [Ice-breaker] When you think of prayer, what comes to mind first—a list of requests, a conversation, a duty, or something else entirely? What shaped that picture?
  2. [Comprehension] Jesus begins the prayer by addressing God as Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name. What is He teaching us about both the intimacy and the transcendence of God in that single opening line?
  3. [Comprehension] In the petitions Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven, what does Jesus prioritize before asking for bread, forgiveness, or deliverance? What does this order reveal about how prayer should reshape our hearts?
  4. [Interpretation] The petition And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors ties God's forgiveness of us directly to our forgiveness of others. How does this change the way you understand what forgiveness is supposed to do in a believer's life?
  5. [Interpretation] Jesus ends with Lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil rather than Keep us from all difficulty. What is the difference between asking God to protect us from temptation and asking Him to protect us from suffering, and why does that distinction matter?
  6. [Heart-level] Which line of the Lord's Prayer most challenges you to pray it truthfully—and why? Where do you find yourself resisting what Jesus is teaching?
  7. [Community] Jesus teaches us to pray Our Father and give us rather than my God and give me. How does the plural language shape what it means to belong to God's family? What does it ask of us toward others in that family?
  • Jesus gives a pattern, not a magic formula: After this manner therefore pray ye (v.9).
  • Prayer opens with intimacy and reverence together—“Our Father” and “Hallowed be thy name.”
  • God's kingdom and will come before our personal requests (v.10).
  • We ask for daily bread, forgiveness, and protection—dependence in body, soul, and spirit (vv.11-13).
  • Forgiveness given flows from forgiveness received, secured by Christ.
  • The prayer ends in worship, returning kingdom, power, and glory to God (v.13).
  • We pray this family language only because the Son first made us the Father's children.

If you remember one thing from this study, let it be this: real prayer begins by hallowing God's name and seeking His kingdom, so that every need we bring is spoken from a heart already surrendered to Him.

Lord Jesus, thank You for teaching us how to pray and for opening the way to call Your Father our Father. Hallow Your name in our hearts, let Your kingdom come and Your will be done in us as it is in heaven. Give us today what we need, forgive our debts as we forgive those who owe us, and deliver us from evil. Jesus, You surrendered perfectly in Gethsemane and bore our debts at the cross, so we trust You with our plans, our provision, and our protection. To You belong the kingdom, the power, and the glory forever. Amen.

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